When straight, cis gendered men tell me they’re lesbians and then smile at me with that strange, leering, “your body belongs to me” sort of smile I just want to wretch. 


clap your hands if you’re bisexual, asexual, or any other sexual and get erased by both the heterosexual and homosexual community



we’ve all got that weird pretty big secret that we don’t really hide but like we don’t flaunt it like “My brother died of cancer” or “I’m gay” or “I tried to kill myself last year” or anything really and when you find out somebody’s big plot twist you know you’re in this friendship for the long run







"I’m sick of how bisexuality is erased in LGBT spaces. I get really nervous before any LGBT event, especially Pride. I feel incredibly sad and hopeless when gay and lesbian people call me insulting names. If gay and lesbian people don’t understand me – Continue reading Prejudice at Pride at Empathize This

This just punched me in the heart.

I don’t go to pride events due to this reason. I’ve gotten so much hate, and street harassment directed at me I just can’t deal with it. It kills me to say it, but I’ve gotten more hate hurled at me by gay men then I have from anyone else. It ranges from being called a “breeder” to horrible comments about my body-type and weight. 
I don’t understand, and it hurts. A lot. 

Same same same.

In my experience, there’s not a whole lot to understand. Being a member of one oppressed group doesn’t mean that you’re not complicit in the oppression of others - and a lot of gay men within the activist community are horrible misogynists. They’re going after bisexual women because they can get away with it. As a bisexual dude, I get hassled by some LGBT activists, too, but I don’t get it one-tenth as badly as bisexual women do, and you’re fooling yourself if you think even for a second that it’s not just bog-standard misogyny finding an acceptable outlet.

In other news, at least when D’Arcy apologizes he does it on a fucking ridiculous scale, so I’ve got tonight to look forward too.

Gotta look on the bright side.

*Still grumping*
*But with a side of sunshine*

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I am Thranduil, son of Oropher, King of Mirkwood.

Little Groot dancing